Don't be vague, says Kendra Knight, Ph D, assistant professor of communication at De Paul University, who studies communication and relationships."People don't communicate clearly enough when they aren't attracted to a person," Dr. It can feel easier and kinder to just be vague and let someone down easy, but that often leads to more uncertainty, she says.," she says.
Here are some suggestions on what to do and what not to do. Chose the venue carefully If you are doing the choosing, pick somewhere that you know your date will like.
All right, so now you’re all set with a shiny dating profile that’s garnered lots of hits from potential hotties.
It is definitely possible to think too much about a first date.
The key is to relax, enjoy yourself and not to analyse everything too much.
"That may make for a smoother exit, but it can leave the other party's head spinning." Comments like those also make you wonder if everyone in the dating scene is looking for "love at first sight." (Hint: Not necessarily.) "Ambiguity and uncertainty come up again and again as major challenges in contemporary dating, therefore I'd advise against euphemism or subtlety," Dr. That said, being honest isn't a license to be unkind.
"Rather, it's a choice to be fair and transparent," Dr. Ahead are some exit strategies that you might want to try, according to Dr.Regardless of whether you hit it off, wouldn’t it be great if you could both say that you had a good experience?So, how can you make sure that your first date is the best it can be (even if it turns out to be your only date together)?Any single woman can meet great guys online, but you do have to be disciplined, screen carefully, and always choose quality over quantity. Rule 1: Lower your expectations (but not your standards).A first date is loaded with expectancy – will she/he like me and will I like them?Knight and dating and relationship expert Anita Chlipala, LMFT.