Maybe all they want to do is gossip, or they habitually indulge in bad habits, or they have just turned into a toxic person be around.Whatever the problem is, you know one thing: you just aren't happy around them anymore.When I was a sophomore in high school, my best friend started dating my ex behind m back (while I was on vacation! The situation was a total mess – we got into a huge fight, I lost my best friend forever and it set the stage for a ton of fun insecurities and trust issues.
Now you’re sad and lonely and totally not over him at all. You finally come to the conclusion that you’ll never move on or trust anyone again. You talk to your best friend about it all the time. You’re so upset you don’t even want to leave your bedroom. (But don’t worry, you will.) Has one of your friends ever dated your ex? Being betrayed by two people you care about has to be one of the worst feelings ever, especially when things are done in an underhanded and sneaky way.Despite the fact that basic girl code rules say we can’t date our best friend’s ex (unless we have her permission and even then, ), people always do it anyway.I’ve been anti-relationship for so long that I didn’t think I’d want to be with him.
Long story short, we became very close, started seeing each other when we could and were talking all day everyday without labeling what it was.It's pretty socially acceptable to be a useless human in the weeks following the break-up of a serious romantic relationship, and friends and family are often more than happy to be by your side 24/7 in the early days.When you have a friend break-up, you might not be sure what other friends were collateral damage, and you're less likely to be cut slack by the other people around you, even if it hurts just as much.He lives a few hours away and comes into the city every now and then so we started talking and made plans to catch up when he was in town.I didn’t realize that this re-connection would become something that I actually wanted to sustain.Almost everyone has been there at some time in their lives.