this is actually more common in china then in america.
(lying and misleading women just to have sex with them) about 10 of these women date foreigners or have dated foreign men. a few guys told my friends that they had a gf in their home country and were only looking for a relationship while in china.
between my students who feel ok with talking to me about their private matters and my friends, they have come across many chinese guys just looking for sex .
In fact, I once dated a girl who would only meet up at places that her parents AND grandmother had pre-approved; as you can imagine none of these places were very fun.
Your lady’s generation may well be the first to have that freedom of romantic choice, and that's something you need to keep in mind while making your decisions for your relationship – there simply isn't a ton of cultural precedent for her to fall back on.
Almost everywhere else in China, however, traditional attitudes to dating prevail. In traditional Chinese culture, boys and girls are introduced to each other in a group social setting.
A girl would only agree to go out on a date with a boy if she were willing to consider marriage.
While researchers have long examined the dating and mate selection patterns among young adults, the vast majority have utilized Western samples.
In order to further our understanding of the changing nature of dating behaviors and attitudes, this study examines a sample of young Chinese adults and focuses upon the gender differences therein.they simple have a "pay as you go" gf or they frequent bar girls or massage parlors or they find a nice "leftover" woman . (Ill go out on a limb and say its a word of mouth phenomena occurring here and it generally speaks of foreigners being better in bed, generally speaking of course...) Apr 06, 2013 being honest Shanghai is much more open than the U. and after 2 years here I witness Chinese men sleeping around, cheating, secretly running into massage places and even go in as groups. Chinese men are cowardly,not honest and maybe better liars, foreign men are mostly honest and will say what they have done and are doing.mind you , the guys i met were older (30 and over) and the chinese guys my friends dated were usually younger so it is an unfair comparsion. Chinese men are having more sex than foreign men, nuff said. how do Chinese ladies those who want/looking for a husband/bf marriage feel/act when they are told by me or ask me that im still a virgin till I marry, and I never been married and im a American caucasion who is 50 years old wanting a well to do single Chinese lady to marry? Expectations about gender roles are much more conservative in traditional Chinese culture than in American culture.If an American boy goes out to dinner with a Chinese girl and does not pay for her meal, the locals will view him he as having lost "face" or social status and they will regard him as a poor dating candidate.If work or extended travel takes your family to China, it is important to have a working knowledge of Chinese customs and how these customs differ from American customs.