cher lloyd and harry styles dating Five things every woman should know about online dating

Because, let’s face it, the odds are not in our favor, ladies.

Meeting and building quick rapport is so easy online and lately I’ve noticed that women all too often let their guard down, lose their common sense or abandon their self protection to a total stranger.

Reflecting back to when I was single and looking after my divorce, I’m shocked at how easily a woman WHO I DID NOT KNOW would invite me to her home (having never met me before) after a few chats via phone/email/text.

Steve says this is a question you need to ask on the first date. You want to know what a guy's working on," he says. "They have to be different from the short-term goals," he says.

"If they're not different, you have a guy that's not really planning."Once you're armed with this information, Steve says you can decide whether you want to attach yourself to his plan and take the relationship to the next level. "He's going to tell you all of this stuff."Once you have the answer to the fourth question, immediately ask the last one on Steve's list.

Some statistics show that for every man over 50, there are up to 5 women; over 60, ten women, and so on. The days of sitting back and waiting for anything incoming are over.

If you want to be noticed and rise to the top, it pays to create the best possible profile and keep it polished and shiny.

However, is it really worth taking the risk for the 1-2% who might be dangerous?

As your heart protector, here are some common sense safety tips when you think he’s different: First, meet in a public place.

And once you know how it is inadvertently turning off the men who are looking for a positive, fun connection, it’s really not that difficult.

Here are the top five profile mistakes common to women over 40, along with specific tips to make your profile more appealing and reflective of the best you. Your profile is your calling card, not a wish list.

It was kinda easy to WOO and WOW women on the phone and they not only thought me safe, they felt an almost unique connection with me.