Before a Relationship Being introverts, INFJs may appear reserved at first.
When it comes to dating and relationships, INFJ individuals have their work cut out – as does a prospective partner of this personality type.
The standard traits of INFJ individuals (introverted, intuitive, feeling, and judging) create only a basic template for this personality.
All the INFJ will want is a little freedom in performing the given task and the ENTJ has no problem giving them that freedom as long as the task gets done on time.
However, there can be problems when the situation is reversed.
While some INFJs may take advantage of this ability, it is generally not within their value system to manipulate others for their own gain.
Meanwhile, some INFJs are so considerate of other people's feelings that they become anxious when flirting, afraid of causing the other person discomfort.
During a Relationship Warm and caring, INFJs can love their partners deeply.
They enjoy showing their affection and receiving the same from their partners.
Note: I recently discovered the original website this list went to has been deleted; fortunately, I cached the list. INFJs are, by definition, rare, reserved, and unlikely to initiate anything, which means that many of them can end up alone and misunderstood.
To help with things, I’ve compiled a list of points which I think would be of great use to anyone considering dating someone who identifies as an INFJ.
He's moody, emotional, overly judgemental and often it takes weeks to convince him to be logical rather than irrational about his 'feelings for things.' That being said he is kind, honest, loving, gentle, loyal, respectful and private.