I’m not sure if anything will come of it but I know you dated in the past and I thought you should know.”Let me say once more, it’s never going to be the best idea you had, but if you honestly do believe their ex is your future love of your life, here’s how to have the best shot at keeping the friendship.Let me say once more, it’s never going to be the best idea you had, but if you honestly do believe their ex is your future love of your life, here’s how to have the best shot at keeping the friendship You’ll probably get one of three reactions: they’ll be genuinely happy you’ve met someone you really like and won’t care; they’ll be upset and may well walk out; or pride will make them say, “Sure, go ahead! You’ll be strongly tempted to gossip about the person you both know, each repeating what they said about you (never dreaming you’d end up going out) and be massively curious about how their relationship was and how you compare.Sometimes it seems like the universe just likes to laugh at your life.
Depending on the situation, it might either be a funny coincidence or something that could tear apart a friend group.Here are a few rules to keep in mind when trying to figure out whether it makes sense to start something up with your ex boyfriend's bro.he "exes code" is a name I've given to the oft-unspoken (and occasionally, loudly voiced) rule that keeps the peace amongst female friends by keeping each other from pursuing each others' exes.(Note: the same rule applies to men, too.) And while the dating pool may seem to be getting smaller and smaller these days, there are certain men that you tempting or convenient they may seem.It is either a test to see if you will do it or a fake go ahead that you will regret.
If you ever get into a disagreement or full on row with your new boyfriend or girlfriend you will get unlimited support off your friend.In some situations, there is exceptions to the rule but in 99.9% of them there isn't.I could go on and on about the rules of friendship but instead I will show you a list of 8 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Friends Ex.To explore these issues, I spoke to several women who shared their new tenets for the "old" exes code with me.According to them, not all exes are created equal — so evaluate the risks involved and proceed accordingly! Do you know what really happened between the two of them? The results might help sway your decision one way or another.Basically, everybody’s dating everybody (and we’re cool with that) but when you make the moves on another guy’s ex, there are a few rules you should live by—and they have nothing to do with antiquated and sexist notions of “bro code.” Here’s how to respect your new girl and keep your friend.